STOP! In the Name of Love (Friendships)

Once an emotion erupts from our hearts and glides off of our tongues, it's hard to walk it back. I learned that lesson the hard way this morning. A dear friend and I started to discuss the news regarding former Speaker of the House, Kevin McCarthy.

As we discussed the outcome, my view was challenged, I became spirited and defended my stance vehemently. Later, my reaction made me miss the good 'ole days. Back when everyone had an opinion, but they actually kept it to themselves.

It's not that her view didn't matter, nor mine. It's that I chose my view over a 30-year friendship. Yikes! I had to text and eat some humble pie. That's what it takes to keep ANY relationship running...HEAPS of FORGIVENESS. I'm thankful she gave me a grace card.

What a shame it would have been if we both agreed to disagree but blew up the friendship anyway. People matter. Not that politics don't. But the people in your circle who have supported you over the years should come first. I have to learn (daily) to hold my tongue. I'm usually pretty good at allowing everyone to express their own opinion. However, the breakdown in our country has changed me. And it shouldn't, unless the change is an improvement.

Take it from me, relationships are too important to throw away over differences of opinion. I have a God-given right to my opinion; however, I also have a God-given right to keep it to myself. I hope you are more responsible navigating important relationships today! If not, eat that humble pie as fast as you can and pray for forgiveness.